Shacking up?

     So finally me and the boo decided to get our own spot to move in together.  We are still on the hunt for a good spot.  I was online reading peoples opinion on moving in with your significant other before marriage.  A lot of things such as religion, principals, personal experiences, and many more things come in play when deciding to do such thing.  I see the point of many other women who say they will not move in with their significant other before marriage, because once they are living together he won't propose, let alone get married.  In my opinion, ladies, to me this is like trying on that cute dress before you go ahead and make the commitment of buying it.  Once you buy it, you are so excited to go home and try it on, but oh no!!! It is not the right fit! So that is how I see it.  Test the waters first, see how it goes.  Though if you and your other half are alredy thinking of moving in, am guessing you all have similar views and wants in life.  He knows you want to get married someday, so when he is ready he will propose.  It has nothing to do with living together or not before marriage, if he truely wants to be with you and loves you, he will marry you and make you happy because he knows you want that in life.  My point is don't be scared to shack up with your honey.  When things are meant to be, they are God sent and meant to happen.

Tattoo Artists

     So last year around this same time I decided to get a tattoo I have been planning out for a while now.  It is a pretty big piece so of course it is going to take a coulpe of sessions.  I met my tattoo artist through relatives.  His work was awesome and I really liked it so I decided to go ahead and get my tattoo started with him. He did some of the outline work and after about 3hours of working on me, we stopped.  After I was all healed up and ready for another session I contacted him and he was always busy so I just stopped trying.  After searching for another artist to work on my piece I found this shop with great prices and very clean.  I went in and told the guy what I wanted, agreed on a price and made an appoinment.  When the day of the appointment was getting close I got sick.  I was sure they didnt want my germs and I dont want the pain when I am feeling like crap so I called and canceled. He told me to call back and reschedule when I was all better and so I did.  When I called to reschedule he said he couldnt do it on that weekend because he had a tattoo party.  Ok, no big deal.  Weekend days were the best for me, do to work and such.  I called again to see if he was available and then again the same issue and he did that about three times on the fourth time I just told him to forget it.  I mean why keep giving someone the run around.  Is not like the tattoo is free am paying for it and that is his business so why all that?? Has this happened to anybody else? Would love to hear about any issues related to mine.

Scary Labor!!!

I am an aunty now of 6 kids.  Only two of which I seen come in to this world.  The first time it was a crazy experience and also the second time.  Here is the thing, I love kids but after seeing my sister give birth it scares the crap out of me!!  I do want kids but am thinking about it twice.  Is it because I am not a mommy and I dont understand yet what it feels to be one?  UGH!! She was in so much pain though babygirl is beautiful.  Is it only me that feels like this?? Not only the pain but babies change everything.  Everyone says "thats why you have babies when you are ready" but are you ever ready? this is pretty much the only thing that doesn't come with a manual.  :)  I would love to hear the different opinions or experiences hopefully I am not the only one whos gotten a bit scared by this.

Dying Your Hair Crazy Red???!!

I feel the need to share my red hair with the world. My hair is naturally dark and I achieved bright red hair with no bleach!!!! There is this awesome little product from loreal technique called  excelence hi color for dark hair only.  Let me tell you since I discovered this hair dye, that is all I use to color my hair.  Since my hair is naturally red is really hard to get a nice shade of red that will show without bleaching the hair but with this product you can. Here is how it looks on my hair and I love it!!!

Now its even brighter since I have found how to make it brighter.  The process is fairly simple anyone can do it if I can.

Also here is a link of the hair dye.  There you can see pictures and brief descriptions of  it.

loreal technique- hi color for dark hair only (reds)